婆媳，永远的冤家？
婆媳，永远的冤家？
Are the forever foe of mother-in -law and daughter-in-law?
hehe, sometimes it seems true. you know a lady grow up from her family with a accustomed life habit, her beloved way. when she falles love with his love man, and when she married with him, she came to a differnt family with different family culture and their life style. yea, she love him,and tryied to accept his family and their way, but it is really a hard thing for almost all of us, don't you think so? so at the begining, she will try to accept, tolerate and forgive. but after a long time, if she found it is too hard to insisit, and when she found she was always giving without getting, she will give up, then begian to anger then to explore. ok, at this time, a fight will not be invoided.
呵呵，这个看起来似乎是真的哦．你知道当一个女孩在自己的家庭氛围中长大，有她熟悉的生活习惯，被爱的方式．然而，当她爱上那个人并嫁给他之后，她来到一个新的家庭，不同的家庭文化，不同的生活方式．因为她爱他，所以她试着接受他的家庭和他们的方式，但是这对我们每个人来说都是很困难的事，不是吗？因此，在开始的时候，她总在尝试着接受，包容，原谅．但是时间一长，她发现很难再坚持了，她发现她一再的付出没有改变什么，没有收货，她放弃了，开始生气，到最后的忍不了的爆发．那么，在这个时候，一场婆媳大战是不可避免了．
yea, the mother in law work a lot for his son and daugher in law in her life, it is beyond doubt. but she also needs to consider the situation of her daughter in law, should give her more love and kindness.
today, people from differnt places will be together and ladies become more and more cherished by their mothers in law. and mostly the couples will buy house from a new place where is far away from their parents in law. these relax the relationship between them much. but the different life styles still can't be the same. so it can't resolve the problem absolutely.
是的，婆婆为儿子和儿媳付出许多，这是毋庸置疑的．但是她也站在儿媳的角度考虑一下，給她更多的关心和爱护．今天，从不同地方来的人会相聚到一起，女孩也开始被婆婆越来越珍惜了，而且，大多数都会在一个离父母远的地方买房子，这些都很大程度的缓和了婆媳关系，但是不同的生活方式仍然不能改变，因此并不能从根本上解决婆媳问题．
so i think the only way to obtain a perfect relationship between them is giving each other more understanding and love, condersidering the things in the opposite role. then after a long time, they may can love each other truely from their heart, not just a love for her husband or her son.
因此我认为，想有完美的婆媳关系，唯一有效的方法就是彼此给予更多的理解和更多的爱，能互相站在对方的角色上考虑问题．时间长了，她们会从心底真正的爱对方，而不是为了丈夫或儿子去尝试的爱．
Are the forever foe of mother-in -law and daughter-in-law?
hehe, sometimes it seems true. you know a lady grow up from her family with a accustomed life habit, her beloved way. when she falles love with his love man, and when she married with him, she came to a differnt family with different family culture and their life style. yea, she love him,and tryied to accept his family and their way, but it is really a hard thing for almost all of us, don't you think so? so at the begining, she will try to accept, tolerate and forgive. but after a long time, if she found it is too hard to insisit, and when she found she was always giving without getting, she will give up, then begian to anger then to explore. ok, at this time, a fight will not be invoided.
呵呵，这个看起来似乎是真的哦．你知道当一个女孩在自己的家庭氛围中长大，有她熟悉的生活习惯，被爱的方式．然而，当她爱上那个人并嫁给他之后，她来到一个新的家庭，不同的家庭文化，不同的生活方式．因为她爱他，所以她试着接受他的家庭和他们的方式，但是这对我们每个人来说都是很困难的事，不是吗？因此，在开始的时候，她总在尝试着接受，包容，原谅．但是时间一长，她发现很难再坚持了，她发现她一再的付出没有改变什么，没有收货，她放弃了，开始生气，到最后的忍不了的爆发．那么，在这个时候，一场婆媳大战是不可避免了．
yea, the mother in law work a lot for his son and daugher in law in her life, it is beyond doubt. but she also needs to consider the situation of her daughter in law, should give her more love and kindness.
today, people from differnt places will be together and ladies become more and more cherished by their mothers in law. and mostly the couples will buy house from a new place where is far away from their parents in law. these relax the relationship between them much. but the different life styles still can't be the same. so it can't resolve the problem absolutely.
是的，婆婆为儿子和儿媳付出许多，这是毋庸置疑的．但是她也站在儿媳的角度考虑一下，給她更多的关心和爱护．今天，从不同地方来的人会相聚到一起，女孩也开始被婆婆越来越珍惜了，而且，大多数都会在一个离父母远的地方买房子，这些都很大程度的缓和了婆媳关系，但是不同的生活方式仍然不能改变，因此并不能从根本上解决婆媳问题．
so i think the only way to obtain a perfect relationship between them is giving each other more understanding and love, condersidering the things in the opposite role. then after a long time, they may can love each other truely from their heart, not just a love for her husband or her son.
因此我认为，想有完美的婆媳关系，唯一有效的方法就是彼此给予更多的理解和更多的爱，能互相站在对方的角色上考虑问题．时间长了，她们会从心底真正的爱对方，而不是为了丈夫或儿子去尝试的爱．
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are you daughter-in-law?
回复：not yet :) but i have some similar feelings
沙发 Date:2008-09-26 15:26:01
i agree with you.....many practical examples support that。。。。
板凳 Date:2008-09-26 22:05:58
DO,DIFFICULTY!
4 楼 Date:2008-09-27 17:03:51
yeah,you are right
5 楼 Date:2009-01-23 23:19:14
