难道这是人生的缘吗？

Difficult way is this the good luck of the life?
What is the good luck?I good very unclear.Is the difficult way the cause and effect that the boon  gratitude and grudge  get?
The human life is boundless, meeting interpersonally, mutually close, love each other, is all accidental.Is this a good luck?
I to say by myself:
         I is together the ship excessiveness with her is something to decree by destiny.But go aboard is the beginning for decree by destiny, such as on a ship what also did not take place, once the ship pull in to shore, each from walk each from of road, as a result the good luck ended, can say, our predestination is very shallow.
         I had the asseveration with him ever:" Wish 100 a life times fix of to together the ship degree, thousand a life times of  fix to bring the total sleep of  " but, there was rain-storm midway, he lends the umbrella to another woman, ascended another ship with him.As a result, our opportunity also disappeared.
          Or father say good:" The person is according to situation but arrive worldly.Bear from you from that day, who is your parents?Who is your elder brother?Who is your lover?This is all the inborn to destine relative.Perhaps in the road of your life, your teacher, your friend, your neighbor...Be like to walk MA3 DENG in your at present rock- this is the good luck.Perhaps, you at the surgical operation on the stage is earnest of do the surgical operation with sufferer, this is a kind of to cure the good luck.In the itinerary of the life, the friend is according to situation but gather of, according to situation but spread of, more is the friend who you put the shoulder but lead, not your real lover.
I to say by myself:
          " Friend, you should wide awake."
Yes," we are once hearts are like one, also hold once and mutually to support mutually, but run off along with the distance and times of the space afterwards, our predestination from thick arrive thin, from thin and be completed
I to say by myself"
Does the predestination that you once have cherish?Do you attend to the brilliancy of oneself's business but don't hold the threshold of the predestination only?
Because the predestination is a kind of mum language and minds to respond, if you hold tight that  sky that gives you the affection of the time of the predestination in, packed to descend 1- always knot the united at heart key, just have the romance of a pair of lovebirds, just had the happiness of the life.
Regrettable, you have no.
I ask the oneself:
Yes, you want to cherish the earnestness of this predestination very much, yes, you lead hard.Yes, you always at think....
But, your good luck was extinguished fire by her.So you are the sacrifice of the predestination and sorrow.Quite good in your mind the deep place still has the loving flame, but the life is in a life time, according to situation but Anne, according to situation not surprised, lose of can never come back.
I ask the oneself:
         Life where not meet mutually, meet mutually is a predestination.
         The life does not own where, gather together is a predestination.
         Life where not the  , know mutually is a predestination
Or that words- walk own road, do the matter that you dare to do, knot the good luck that you throw mutually.
Can't beg, is an oneself, the other people want to take to also take not to walk;Isn't your , think have to also can not get.
Difficult way is this the predestination of the life?
难道这就是人生的缘吗？
缘是什么？我好似很含糊。难道是恩恩怨怨得的因果？
人世茫茫，人与人之间的相遇，相亲，相爱，都是偶然的。这就是缘吗？
我对自己说：
         我和她是同船过度是有缘的。但是上船是有缘的开始，如在船上什么也没有发生，船一靠岸，就各自走各自的路，因而缘就结束了，可以说，我们的缘分很浅。
         我和他曾经有过誓言：“愿百世修的来同船度，千誓世修带来共枕眠”但是，中途下了暴雨，他把伞借给了另一个女子，和他上了另一条船。因而，我们的姻缘也就消失了。
          还是爸爸说的好：“人是随缘而到世上的。从你诞生那一天起，谁是你的父母？谁是你的兄长？谁是你的爱人？这都是先天注定的亲缘。也许在你人生的路程中，你的老师，你的朋友，你的邻居。。。像走马灯似的在你的眼前晃动---这就是缘。也许，你在手术台上认真的和患者做手术时，这就是一种医缘。在人生的旅程中，朋友是随缘而聚的，随缘而散的，更多的是你插肩而过的朋友，而不是你真正的爱人。
我对自己说：
          “朋友，你该清醒了。“
是的，“我们曾心心相印，也曾相携相扶，但后来随着空间的距离和时光的流失，我们的缘分从浓到淡，由淡而终了
我对自己说“
你曾有的缘分珍惜过吗？你是否只顾自己事业的辉煌而不把握缘分的门槛？
因为缘分是一种无言的语言和心灵的感应，如果你抓住缘分的时光那就给你感情的天空里，装下了一个---永结同心的钥匙，才有比翼鸟的浪漫，才有了人生的快乐。
可惜，你没有。
我问自己：
是的，你很想珍惜这缘分的真挚，是的，你努力过。是的，你一直在想。。。。
可是，你的缘被她灭火了。所以你是缘分的牺牲者和悲哀者。不错在你的心灵深处仍有爱的火苗，但人生在世，随缘而安，随缘不惊，失去的是永远不能回来的。
我问自己：
         人生何处不相逢，相逢就是缘分。
         人生何处不拥有，相聚就是缘分。
         人生何处不婚宿，相知就是缘分
还是那句话—走自己的路，做你敢做的事，结你相投的缘。
不可求，是自己，别人想拿也拿不走；不是你的，想得也得不到。
难道这就是人生的缘分吗？

我对英语很疯狂。。我在努力中。。我有很多的问题。。需要好心朋友的帮助。。。。。