life lessons

Life Lessons

我们总是在不经意间想起一些人，记起一些事，他们曾影响并改变过我们，并且作为我们生命中的一部分停留在记忆中，指引着我们走向未来。本文作者通过平实的语言告诉我们：不论在生活中遇见什么样的人、经历过什么样的事，请积极地看待他们并从中收益，这样才能活的有价值。

We live only once ,but if we work it right once is enough.

生命只有一次。认真对待，一次足矣。

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose ,teach you a lesson ,or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become .You never know who these people may be ---a roommate , a neighbor , a professor, a friend ,a lover , or even a complete stranger ---but when you lock eyes with them,you know at that very moment they will affect your life in some profound way.

Sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible. painful , and unfair at first, but in reflection youfind that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential .strength , wollpower. or heart.

Everything happens for a reason . Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck . Illness,injury ,love, lost moments of true greatness , and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests , whatever they may be ,life would be like a smoothly paved straight flat roadto nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable,but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet who affect your life ,and the success and downfalls you experience ,help to createt who you are and who you become .Even the bad experiences can be learned from.In fact , they are sometimes the most important ones.

If someone loves you, give love back to them in whatever way you can , not only because they love you,but because in a way,they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things .

If someone one hurts you , betrays you,or breaks your heart , forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart .

Make every day count . Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again.Talk to people that you have never talked to before ,and listen to what they have to say .

Let yourself fall in love, break free ,and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to . Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself , for if you don't believe in yourself , it will be hard for others to believe in you.

生活的教训

有时候，当人们一走进你的生活，你就知道他们注定出现在那里并给你带来一些影响，或给你一个教训，或帮你弄明白你是什么样的人或者你想要成为什么样的人。你永远也不知道这些人会是谁---室友、邻居、教授、朋友、爱人，亦或是一个完全陌生的人---但是在你们眼光交接的瞬间，你明白了他们将会对你的人生产生深远的影响。

有时候，你的际遇起先看似恐怖、痛苦、有失公平，但是仔细想想你会发现，如果不克服这些阻碍，你永远也不可能意识到你的潜力、能量、意志力和内心。

任何事情的发生都有缘由。没有什么是出于偶然或命运的好坏。疾病、伤痛、爱情、真正伟大时刻的逝去以及十足的愚昧都考验着你灵魂的极限。不管这些是什么样的小考验，没有它们，生活就像一条不知通向何方的平坦大道，虽然安全舒适，却乏味、毫无意义可言。

那些你遇见并影响了你生命的人，还有你经历过的成功和衰败，都有助于你造就自我、成就未来。即使是悲惨的经历也于人有益。事实上，有时候他们才是最重要的。

如果有人爱你，那么就以任何你所能给予的方式回报他们的爱，不仅仅因为他们爱你，还因为他们以某种方式教会你去爱，教会你如何打开心扉、睁开眼睛来看待事物。

如果有人伤害了你，背叛了你，或伤了你的心，请原谅他们，因为他们帮助你学会了信任以及对你敞开心扉的人要谨慎的重要性。

让每一天过的有价值吧。珍惜每时每刻，并竭尽可能从中汲取，因为你大概不可能再拥有同样的经历。与那些从没交谈过的人交谈，倾听他们有什么需要表达。

让自己沉醉爱河、摆脱束缚、目光高远。昂起头来，你完全有权力如此。告诉自己你是一个伟大的人，相信自己，因为如果连你都不信自己，让别人相信你就太难了。