爱是有原则的

爱情是有原则的
我们都知道，爱情是自己人生中的一次赌博。用心理学的观点来看，自己不过是选着一份情感的寄托，。因而，你要问自己：“你会期望他会这么样？你想从爱情中得到什么？我是否是真诚的走进这爱情的漩涡？还是会离开这场爱情？”
我认为爱，是把对方作为一个单独的个体去了解，而不是让他去满足自己的幻想。我要承认你爱的人首先是“别人”而不是填补你自身空白的对象。这样，我就会摆脱情感的依赖，从而自己走进真正的美好的感情中。
今天我在图书馆里看到一本书---“爱我所有”给我提出了一个很难解的问题—“爱情是有原则的。”
生活的真谛并不是秘密，幸福的源泉大家都知道。但有时候真的有点奥妙，守着身边很多优秀的男士不要，我的朋友莎莎却在一个虚俪的空间里，爱上一个有妻之夫。并断言要嫁给他。
我问她：“你喜欢上他什么？”
她很含蓄的说：“爱一个人是没有理由的。”
我问她：“你再夺她人之爱，在破坏一个完美的家庭。这是罪过。”
她反之有理的对我说：“爱是竞争，，爱是力量，是支撑生命的主导。”
我生气的对她说：“”爱是有先后的，爱是有道德的，悬崖勒马吧“！
在我们的身边可爱的男人，可爱的女人是实在太多了，但做人不能贪得无厌
得拢望蜀。我大学有一个女同学，天生丽质聪慧可人，他的专业是修油画的，她的男朋友为他筹备了个人画展，但由于资金的欠缺，她的男朋友鼓励他去参加选美。她去了，她成功了。按道理说她应当是满足了，但她此时不想画画了，她也不缺少于男人的浪漫了。。。她嫁给一个台湾的大善人。他前后嫁了三个男人，可是没有一个男人是真心的爱过她她自杀了。。在遗书上写道：“欲拥太多了结果连自己的生命也搭上了。这就告诉我们：“爱是有原则的”要不吃亏得只能是你自己。。。。
欲拥有一切所爱，永无幸福可言；爱我所有，幸福就在身边。

记住，珍惜你的所有，欲望有多大，一个人的人生陷阱就有多深。
The love is principled
We all know, the love is a wager  in oneself's life.See with the standpoint of the psychology, oneself however is to choose consign of an emotion,.As a result, you have to ask the oneself:" Your session hope he would so kind?What do you want to get from the love?Am I to walk into the whirlpool of this love sincerely?Or would leave this love?"
I think the love, is to be a lone individual to the other party to understand, not let he to satisfy own imagination.I want to admit person whom you love first is" other people" but is not to fill up your oneself blank of object.Thus, I will get away from the dependence of the emotion, the oneself thus walks into the real fine affection.
Today I see a book in the library-" love me all" put forward a problem that can hardly solve for me-" the love is principled."
The living true meaning is not a secret, headspring everyone of the happiness know.But sometimes really of have a little mysterious, stay by the side nearby a lot of excellent mans not to want, my friend the  in aly falsely the space of the  , be in love with a man that have the wife.Affirm and get married also to him.
I ask her:" You like last he what?"
She says very reservedly:" Love a person has no reason."
I ask her:" You again the 夺 her person's love, at break a perfect family.This is the fault."
She whereas reasonable say to me:" The love is a competition,, the love is a power, is the predominance that prop up the life."
I am angry of say to her:"" The love is to have successively of, the love is to have the morals of, the overhanging cliff  horse"!
At our nearby lovely man, the lovely woman is true too many, but do the person and can't have insatiable greed
Get the  hopes the  .My university contain a woman's classmate, astute of a born beauty can person, his profession is to fix the oil painting, her boyfriend prepared and plan personal art exhibition for him, but because of the lack of the funds, her boyfriend encourage he attends the beauty contest.She went to, she succeeded.Say according to the truth that she should be to satisfy, but she did not want to paint at this time, she is also enough and little in the man's romance...She gets married to a big good man of Taiwan.He got married three men in front and back, but have no a men sincerely loved her she committed suicide..Write the way on the dying testament:" The desire hug too many conclude the fruit even the own life also takes ascend.This tells us:" The love is principled" want to be not to suffer a los only ability is yourself....
The desire owns a love, always have no happiness and can talk;Love me all, happiness at nearby.

Remember, cherish your havings, the desire has another greatly, a person's life trap has another deeply.